I Got My Period!

Girl: I got my period!

Guy: (thinking) THANK GOD!

The above is a perfect example describing the term, “breathe a sigh of relief”.

If you slept with a girl unprotected and she complains about a late period and later tells you that it came, you will understand the relief being described.

If a picture says a thousand words then the feature image by artist Ray Styles, says five thousand for sure. 

Unfortunately it’s something that is rarely discussed. Our culture is partly to blame for it. Parents and family rarely discuss sex with their children and it sometimes leads to them getting into situations that could have been avoided.

Today I want to take a brief look at what guys go through in this situation when at university and encourage all to discuss this more in order for the youth not to repeat the mistakes of our past.

Majority of what I am going to share is from a Whatsapp discussion about the feature image. Guys behavior in this situation is funny when viewed from the perspective that the girl’s period eventually came.

Instead of you studying in school, you are chopping girls.

When your sex partner speaks of period lateness and you had unprotected sex, boys can’t think straight.  

Stress be what! 😂😂😂😂

You lose appetite, can’t focus on studies, travel back in time to perform analytics on whether your little yous suddenly became faster than Usain Bolt. 

Some go forward in time and ask thought provoking questions such as:

  1. How much are diapers?
  2. Am I ready to be a father?
  3. What will I do if she is actually pregnant?

Some become religious and are looking for a miracle so bad that the “we’re not interested” attitude when student evangelists came over evolves into reception and a new born again status.

And they PRAY!

So if a university male student tells you he is stressed and it’s evident and he keeps praying, chances are he is in period camp.

(Period camp….that’s a nice way to describe what guys feel)

Most guys enter a “God save me and I will never have sex again” contract. The lies God hears, I wonder whether He laughs or views it as a lesson in disguise.

The icing on the cake is that the girl in question often doesn’t freak out the way the guy freaks out. This apparently depends on how you look at it. Internally girls freak out. They also freak out in the physical to their besties. In the presence of guys however they often play it cool and this drives guys NUTS!

So why can’t students just use protection and save themselves from this wahala (stress)? 

Condoms and a quote to emphasize what is precious

Condoms and a quote

That is a million dollar question. Is the education on contraceptives enough? Are youth these days pressured into being stupid?

The best thing is to abstain. I however would not put myself in a pot calling the kettle black situation and pretend that is the only solution. I repeat, it’s the best thing to do, not from a Christian standpoint but from EVERY standpoint.

If however you decide to delve into promiscuity, use protection. Yes, love without glove feels good and blah blah blah but let’s play a little game I learned in economics called opportunity cost. 

What’s the opportunity cost of you having unprotected sex?

  1. You could produce a baby ( don’t act you ain’t fertile)
  2. You can contract an STD (Sexualy Transmitted Disease).
  3. You can contract AIDS (I know it’s an STD but it deserves its own bullet point)
  4. The stress – I can’t quantify it but it’s a LOT.
  5. Cultural and societal embarrassment if you are a student and a baby is on the way.

The benefit of unprotected sex is the feeling and that as most ladies will tell you is not always guaranteed. So why risk it for some guy or girl you just met or your partner.

NEWS FLASH: a good portion of university relationships seldom make it to marriage so why fight against statistics. 

Conclusion

We need to discuss this more with others. Not only our peers but the younger ones as well. Society today is bombarded with enticement from all angles. 

The internet, social media and instant messaging escalates the importance we as adults need to place on educating the youth.

The problem is young people think they know. However letting them know of the close calls you had can be a turn around for them. A line after all needs to be drawn somewhere.

What has been your experience with late periods or period camp?

Will you discuss this with youth you know?

Let’s be real about this issue and keep it One Hondred!

A big thank you to Ray Styles for allowing me to use his image in this article and using his art to start a conversation.

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